Comments on: To Be Continued https://elanmeetsrafa.com webcomic: boy love story with a cat and a sharpie pen Tue, 06 Feb 2018 17:08:00 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.8 By: bandanajack https://elanmeetsrafa.com/to-be-continued/#comment-7210 Thu, 15 Jun 2017 11:02:00 +0000 http://elanmeetsrafa.com/?page_id=3076#comment-7210 i am really sorry to hear of your parents health problems. i know with folks my age, or that of my parents, life can get really complicated really fast. my father passed mercifully quickly, but the events after, and living alone unwound her pretty badly, and by the time she would pack up and move in with me, she had begun her slow descent into dementia, which was probably rougher on me than on her, but only marginally. at the time i was already somewhat disabled and collecting social security to live on, and car less. without a spouse or offspring to help me and her physicality still strong as her mind failed. i would not wish the 2 years that followed on my worst enemy. i hope you know to get as much help as you possibly can. taking care of one, not to mention two is too much for any one person.

i know i won’t, and i doubt anyone else would either, held it against you if you were to just post the outline of the scenes to follow, week by week, just to keep the fan base attached to the saga.

be strong, and take at least as good a care of yourself as you do of them. look into having the government agencies in charge treating you as a paid caregiver. i know i would have, but my mother clung to the outdated notion that this is a child’s duty to care for the parent without remuneration, so i just had to get buy on our joint resources.

all the good i did do was that i did survive although in much worse health than i began in..

]]> By: bandanajack https://elanmeetsrafa.com/to-be-continued/#comment-7020 Thu, 13 Apr 2017 21:08:00 +0000 http://elanmeetsrafa.com/?page_id=3076#comment-7020 my god, these chapters, these snippets, are too short. i understand the reasons for this, but that is cold comfort when such heightened emotion is in play. if only i could turn away from the incoming episode until i had 5 or 10 built up, but i always jump to open the next installment. pity me.

]]> By: bandanajack https://elanmeetsrafa.com/to-be-continued/#comment-6294 Wed, 24 Aug 2016 09:15:00 +0000 http://elanmeetsrafa.com/?page_id=3076#comment-6294 Aaaarrrgghhhh !!!

]]> By: themice https://elanmeetsrafa.com/to-be-continued/#comment-6236 Thu, 28 Jul 2016 14:33:00 +0000 http://elanmeetsrafa.com/?page_id=3076#comment-6236 I met Alex at Yaoicon. He is a very nice guy and a great model for sales/marketing. I wish I was as extroverted and confident as he is!

]]> By: themice https://elanmeetsrafa.com/to-be-continued/#comment-6235 Thu, 28 Jul 2016 14:32:00 +0000 http://elanmeetsrafa.com/?page_id=3076#comment-6235 If only I could draw/scan/prepare as fast as you can read!

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